A parenting/discipline reference list

[terriblelynne]

This is partially for my personal reference and also available just as an FYI.

http://www.nospank.net/purpose.htm

http://www.nospank.net/main.htm

http://www.neverhitachild.org/
(look at their excellent links/resources page)

http://www.vegsource.com/talk/parenting/no_spanking.htm

http://www.crisisconnectioninc.org/domesticviolence/nospanking.htm

http://www.extension.umn.edu/info-u/families/BE714.html

http://www.takingchildrenseriously.com/node/46

http://www.takingchildrenseriously.com/what_tcs_is_and_what_it_is_not

http://www.vachss.com/help_text/corporal_punishment.html

http://www.nospank.net/faber.htm

http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0943990742/104-2319290-3746308?v=glance&n=283155&v=glance

http://fabermazlish.com/newslett.htm

Comments

[chungjik.livejournal.com]

I know not every link I posted has information or tools that will work in every single instance...that's why I posted so many of them.

Exactly. Not violent parenting taking creativity. Each situation may call for a slightly different response. It takes time too...

The other piece that I have found is this: When parents try to switch parenting technques, it takes time to do so successfully. The child may act out in the meanwhile. The child may test the parents limits. The biggest thing is that parents MUST stay CONSISTENT. You can't give up the second the child tests your limits and say "See- I told you these techniques won't work!"